Sunday, July 14, 2019

The Law of Nice

Sermon for July 14, 2019
Luke 10:25-37

This morning’s Gospel reading, the parable of the good Samaritan, is one of those stories we probably know too well, as a friend of mine likes to say.  We think we know it, but there’s a lot going on here.  So, let’s take a minute to unpack it.
The reading opens with “a lawyer,” an expert in Jewish law, throwing a question at Jesus to test him and put him in his place.  The question and answer are simple:  How do I inherit eternal life?  You love God and neighbor.  There are no other commandments greater than these, as Jesus says elsewhere. 
But the religious expert pushes back, asking, “And who is my neighbor?” (Luke 10:29).  He’s trying to justify his own practice of faithfulness.  He wants to make it clear that he’s checking the boxes on God’s commandments just fine, thank you very much.  “Sure, the commandment is to love … but that doesn’t mean everybody, right?”
So, Jesus begins his parable.  First, we’ve got a man traveling between Jerusalem and Jericho who’s been attacked, robbed, and left for dead.  Other than that, we know nothing about this man; I’ll come back to that later. 
Then we’ve got the priest and the Levite, both of whom served specific roles in Temple worship.  To do their jobs, the priest and the Levite were obligated to follow the Jewish purity codes, which you can find in the books of Leviticus and Numbers – a wonderful glimpse into the history of Jewish piety and a great cure for insomnia.  
Here’s a little background.  You had to be ritually pure in order to participate in Temple worship, and out-of-the-ordinary life events would leave you ritually unclean – things like contact with certain dead animals, or childbirth, or skin diseases, or a woman having her period.  And there were special purity requirements for those leading or supporting worship – complicated and time-consuming practices to remove ritual impurity and prepare you for service in the Lord’s Temple.  
Well, one sure-fire way to lose your ritual purity was to have contact with a dead body.  Simply that action would take you out of the game for seven days (Numbers 19:11).  And if you failed to go through the rites of purification before coming back to lead worship, you would defile the Lord’s tabernacle for everyone and put yourself at risk of ostracism and possibly death (Numbers 9:13).  So, avoiding contact with a dead body was a higher-stakes situation than we might think.  And it helps explain why the priest and the Levite in the parable not only fail to help the half-dead man but go clear to the other side of the road to avoid him.
Then we have the Samaritan.  Now, you probably know that the people of Israel held the Samaritans in contempt – the kind of contempt reserved for family feuds.  The Samaritans were descended from the Northern Kingdom of Israel, which had split from the Southern Kingdom after the death of King Solomon.  The Jews, the descendants of the Southern Kingdom, saw the Samaritans as neither Jews nor Gentiles exactly – the branch of the family you avoid at all costs.   There’s no one quite so impure or unclean as someone who’s related but definitely not one of “us.”
Of course, the crux of Jesus’ story is that it’s this alien, this Samaritan of all people, who stops and cares for the half-dead man at the side of the road.  And he does that because the Samaritan sees not a problem there but a person.  Moved with compassion – which means, literally, to suffer with someone – the Samaritan treats the man’s wounds, lets him ride on his donkey, takes him to an inn, gives the innkeeper two days’ wages to pay for the man’s lodging, and promises to pay for whatever else the man’s care requires. 
So, what’s going on with this parable?  First, we might notice that Jesus very carefully doesn’t answer the religious expert’s question.  Instead, Jesus raises a much larger question:  What makes you righteous?  Is it keeping obligations? 
We might think about it in our own context, both in terms of secular law and religious observance.  Let’s say we pay our taxes, and we observe the speed limit, and we keep the trash container neatly behind the fence in our yard.  And, let’s say we’re actively part of a church community, and we pray for our own needs and the needs of others, and we give to God 10 percent of what God gives us.  How’s that, Jesus?  How are we doing at inheriting eternal life?
Now, Jesus would never have said to the religious expert, or to us, “You don’t need to bother with the requirements of the law.”  That’s what defined being part of God’s covenant community back in the day.  But Jesus certainly would have said to the expert, and to us, something like, “It’s necessary, but not sufficient.”  Following the law, keeping our obligations – that’s not what puts us in right relationship with God.  Behaving righteously is what puts us in right relationship – doing justice, loving mercy, and walking humbly with our God (Micah 6:8).  And that requires not just knowing who counts as your neighbor but acting as a neighbor. 
And what does that take, to act as a neighbor?  I think it requires not just legal observance, and not just politeness, but love – the action of love.  If you’ve ever loved someone for real – if you’ve had a spouse or a child or a deep soul friend – you know that love involves not just action but costly action.  In Jesus’ parable, love for the half-dead man would have cost the priest or the Levite not just time but some exclusion, distance from their official roles and from the community life that gave them status.  And regardless of who stopped to help, once that investment was made, the cost just would have kept piling up – time, and supplies, and use of your vehicle, and cash to cover expenses – all for someone you don’t even know.  Is a half-dead person at the side of the road worth the investment?  On the world’s terms, Jesus would say, you’ll never know.  Love ’em anyway.
And that brings us to the person at the side of the road.  As I said, Jesus tells us nothing about him.  In the story, he’s literally no one.  So, actually, the first act of costly love in this story isn’t bandaging wounds.  It isn’t even stopping and interrupting your journey.  The first act of costly love is seeing – really seeing this person.  The priest and the Levite notice there’s a half-dead man at the side of the road.  The Samaritan sees the man with the eyes of compassion, the eyes of suffering with others.  Maybe the Samaritan knows a thing or two about being ignored.  Maybe he’s felt the slap of silence or watched others’ eyes look away.  His eyes of compassion lead the Samaritan to mercy, to love that costs him something.  That’s fulfilling God’s commandments.
I’m going to take a risk here and ask us to look at a purity code of our own, one we usually don’t think about.  It’s not the Law of Moses.  Instead, it’s the Law of Nice.  And I feel like I’m the perfect person to talk about it, because I am the apostle of nice.  Ever since seminary, people have been saying, “Oh, that John Spicer, he’s so … nice.”  Sometimes that’s a compliment; sometimes, not so much.  It’s not something I work at; it’s just how I’m wired and how I was raised.  And, you know, I think I have a lot of fellow apostles of nice sitting here this morning.  Here in Kansas City, here at St. Andrew’s … we’re really good at Midwest nice.  After all, it’s nice to be nice to the nice.
But something interesting happened here last Sunday, showing the limits of the Law of Nice.  I preached last week about Independence Day, how the vision of this nation honors human dignity and how Christian discipleship intersects with that.  Then, at the end of the sermon, it happened, at least at the 10:15 service:  People clapped.  Not everyone, of course, but enough to make it feel like a statement. 
That applause broke our purity code, the Law of Nice.  We’re not supposed to clap in church.  We probably know that; but, as with many old customs, we may not know why.  Theologically, we don’t clap because not clapping helps us remember whom we’re here to honor.  Our choir may sing an amazing piece of music and offer it with heavenly beauty; but we’re not supposed to clap because that anthem is not a performance.  It’s their offering to the God who’s worthy of all our praise and who provided the gifts that make their music possible in the first place. 
Now, what I intended with that sermon was to offer dignity as the intersecting point between Christian ethics and the American vision.  I raised up the crisis of overwhelming numbers of immigrants at the Southern border, and I said we all believe the people involved in that crisis are worthy of being treated with dignity, regardless of our political perspective.  When people applauded, I hoped that meant they were embracing that notion of dignity being at the core of our identity as Americans and as followers of Jesus.
Now, the good thing about this violation of the Law of Nice was that it encouraged several others, later, to violate it, too, by telling me a truth I might not have heard otherwise.  They said the applause made them feel excluded because they heard it as support for a political agenda they disagree with, related to immigration and other issues.  It didn’t matter what I intended about the sermon’s message; that’s how they heard the applause.  And it made them feel like the outsiders in this room, where we’re supposed to come together as family.
The truth is, I don’t know why people clapped.  What I do know is that we each brought our own meaning to the applause, and we can’t control what meaning others brought.  So, in addition to its theological merit, that purity code about not clapping for sermons has a lot of pastoral value, too, especially in divided times.
But still, like I said, there was an unintended benefit in our violation of the Law of Nice.  Just as Jesus asked the legal expert to go beyond checking the boxes of salvation and to risk even violating the Law of Moses for the sake of loving a neighbor, I think it’s good for us to go beyond the Law of Nice, and here’s how: by asking for the perspective of someone with whom we know we’ll disagree.  And then, really listen.  Really try to see that person as a neighbor.  It’s not about changing points of view, our own or the other’s.  It’s about seeing the other with the eyes of love and choosing engagement and relationship over avoidance. 
So, in these complicated times, we might each ask ourselves:  Who is the other to me?  What boundary do I need to cross?  Whom do I need to hear so I can know them in the fullness of their dignity?  That’s costly love – the love that turns “me” and “them” into “us.”

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