How We Live Matters More

Sermon for June 7, 2026
Hosea 5:15-6:6; Psalm 50:7-15; Romans 4:13-25; Matthew 9:9-13,18-26

As I said in the column this weekend, we’re beginning several Sundays when our worship will mark events and holidays that aren’t part of the Church’s calendar.  Today, in addition to observing the second Sunday after Pentecost, our diocese and St. Andrew’s are marking Wear Orange Sunday, which raises awareness of gun violence and encourages us to help prevent it.

Wear Orange Sunday comes on the heels of yesterday’s participation in Kansas City’s Pridefest.  Our diocese, and members of our congregation, took part to affirm that all people are beloved by God and welcome to participate fully in the Church’s life and work.  Then, on June 21, in addition to marking Father’s Day, we’ll honor the national Juneteenth holiday, which celebrates the end of enslavement in the United States and asks us to keep working toward justice for all.  And finally, on July 5, we’ll honor our nation’s 250^th birthday by observing Independence Day, an official feast on the Episcopal Church calendar that we celebrate here each year.

Now, some of us will take exception to one or more of these observances.  And that can come from either direction – from those who will think we’re overdoing it or from those who will think we’re underdoing it.

Take today’s observance of Wear Orange Sunday.  As I said, the focus is preventing gun violence, and we’ll intercede about that in the Prayers of the People, along with our regular remembrance of those who’ve died in violent acts.  I imagine some of you see Wear Orange as a political statement, a critique of Second Amendment rights.  Others of you would want more – maybe lighting the church in orange floodlights this weekend.

Then there’s our participation in Pridefest.  We were there yesterday to support the legal rights of LGBTQ people and their full inclusion in the life of the Church because, historically, they’ve been denied those things.  Some of you would take exception to us participating in Pride, seeing it as a political statement.  Others of you would want more – maybe a Pride flag flying on our lawn.

Then there’s our observance of Juneteenth in two weeks, when our readings and music will honor the national holiday.  As I said, Juneteenth celebrates the end of enslavement in the United States, our centuries-long original sin.  Of course, by itself, ending slavery didn’t redeem America’s racial history or heal its future.  But I’d say ending slavery is certainly something worth celebrating, part of our nation’s movement toward justice.  Some of you would take exception to that, seeing a Juneteenth celebration as a political statement.  Others of you would want more – maybe us sponsoring a community Juneteenth event.

And our suspicion of civic observances isn’t limited to those that people might see as progressive.  On July 5, we’ll celebrate our nation’s 250^th Independence Day, a feast with its own appointed prayers and readings, as I said; and we’ll sing national hymns like “God of our fathers,” “God bless our native land,” and “Eternal Father, strong to save.”  Some of you would see marking Independence Day in church as a political statement – an act that cozies up to Christian nationalism, the movement that twists the Good News to claim that God likes America best.  Others of you would want more – maybe a 21-gun salute after worship.

So … why do we do this?  Why do we mark these civic moments in church?  Wouldn’t it be easier just to put on blinders, and follow the prayer book, and let the world spin outside?

Yes.  It certainly would.  We could just offer the appointed sacrifices, so to speak.  But I think Jesus and the prophets might have something to say about seeking righteousness that way.

In the Old Testament reading, from Hosea, God says, “Listen:  Good intentions aren’t sufficient.  When the crunch comes,” God says, “my people turn back to me and offer their obligatory worship – but is that enough?  No,” God says. “‘I desire steadfast love and not sacrifice, the knowledge of God rather than burnt offerings’” (6:6).  Your prayers and worship matter, but how you live matters more.

The psalm today makes the same point with a little more divine snark.  God says, “Look, your worship is fine; ‘your offerings are always before me.’  But do you think that’s most important?  ‘Do you think I eat the flesh of bulls or drink the blood of goats?  Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving, and make good your vows to the Most High.’” (Psalm 50:7-14 BCP).  Yes, prayers and worship matter.  But how you live matters more.

The apostle Paul picks up a similar theme in today’s reading from Romans.  Gettin’ right with God doesn’t come by keeping the Law but by following Abraham’s example of faith, Paul says.  It has to be that way so that God’s promise may rest on grace, not obligation or scorekeeping.  Abraham’s story shows the kind of trust that God’s looking for.  With a straight face, God promised a couple of childless centenarians that they would have many descendants.  And what God heard from them was, “OK.  We trust that you’ll keep your word, so we’ll follow your lead.”  That kind of trust is what lets us experience grace, God’s love freely given.  It’s not about being rewarded because we got our prayers or worship right.  Trusting and living faithfully – that’s what puts us into right relationship with God.  Your prayers and worship matter.  But how you live matters more.

Then we have Jesus in today’s Gospel reading.  As the religious experts watch his every move, Jesus calls the worst person in the world as one of his disciples – Matthew, the tax collector.  Everybody holds Matthew in contempt.  The Romans see him as a dirty peasant so weak he’s willing to collude with them as a parasite to his neighbors.  The Jews see him as a traitor and collaborator with the Empire who gets rich off them in the process.  Matthew is the last guy anyone would call righteous.  And yet Jesus calls him.  And Matthew – for the first time basking in God’s Love rather than everyone’s contempt – Matthew leaves his tax booth, follows Jesus, and invites him to dinner with other misfits and losers.  Of course, Jesus goes; and, of course, the religious leaders are scandalized.  Quoting what we heard from Hosea earlier, Jesus looks at them and says, “Don’t you get it yet?  ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’  For I have come to call not the righteous but sinners.” (Matt 9:13)  The point works in two directions:  To Matthew, and to all of us who serve the wrong gods and take advantage of each other, Jesus says:  Straighten up.  And – to the religious authorities, and to all of us who are sure God’s on our side, Jesus says:  “Practice mercy.  Yes, your prayers and worship matter.  But how you live matters more.”

And then, for good measure, Jesus follows up his teaching by showing us what life can look like when we practice righteousness by the choices we make, not by the tribe we choose.  A leader of the local synagogue risks his credibility with the Pharisees by putting his trust in the Love he sees standing there before him.  The synagogue leader says to Jesus, “My daughter has just died; but come and lay your hand on her, and she will live” (Matt 9:18).  And, in a beautiful turn, Jesus – who’s just called Matthew to follow him – gets up and follows this local pastor to his house.  Meanwhile, a woman in the crowd sees the same Love standing before her, and she takes a huge risk, for herself and for Jesus, by coming up and touching his cloak.  That act exposes her to even more rejection by the community.  She’s already a perpetual outsider because her bleeding makes her ritually unclean; now, she’s in trouble because this unclean woman has touched a man, and a rabbi at that, thereby making him ritually unclean.  Jesus knows this, but he doesn’t care.  When he turns and looks at her, he sees her deep trust in the power of Love to heal us.  So, he simply says, “Your faith has made you well” (9:22).  Then he arrives at the house of the trusting local pastor and quietly brings his daughter back to life.

Yes, these are miracle stories, but they’re more than that.  These are glimpses of what life looks like when we align our hearts and our hands with the God who is Love – when we trust in Love to heal us and our world and then follow Love’s way with each next step.  Gettin’ right with God isn’t about being on the right side or meeting the right obligations.  Gettin’ right with God is about letting Love flow through us.  Our prayers and worship matter.  But how we live matters more.

So … back to the civic observances in our worship over the next few weeks:  Ultimately, they aren’t the point – but they do matter because worship forms us, for good or for ill.  To me, the reason we’d honor the full inclusion of LGBTQ folks, or pray against gun violence, or celebrate the end of enslaving people is because doing those things reminds us that some of God’s beloved children have been, or currently are, at risk of harm.  We’d include them and their lives in worship because doing that helps us remember that God wants all of us children to live in the fullness of divine Love.  And then, about celebrating Independence Day – why would we do that?  We’d offer our nation to God through our worship because doing so reminds us of what is holy in our national DNA and inspires us to live that out.  We engage civic life in our worship because it’s a way we can remember forward – a way to remember both who we are – God’s beloved – and how God calls us to be instruments of Love today, and tomorrow, and the next day.

Now, where all this gets complicated is in the practicalities.  Today, some of us are wearing orange to remember victims and survivors of gun violence.  That’s great.  And … when do we get to the Sundays when we’ll wear special colors to remember people who are hungry, or children who lack educational opportunity, or families who can’t afford a decent place to live, or people who are persecuted for their faith?  The list could go on and on – I’m sure we could find 52 of them, one for each week.  How do we decide which aspects of civic life should be included in worship?  I just think we have to be careful about the temptation to devote a Sunday to everything – which, of course, would leave us with the paradox that when everything is special, nothing is special.

But, again, I think Jesus and the prophets would ask us to remember why we honor what we choose to honor.  The point is not virtue-signaling.  The point is not aligning a congregation with a cultural tribe.  The point is not meeting religious obligations.  The point is to remind us of the reign and rule of God – the way Love, and only Love, can upend injustice, and heal what’s broken, and make us and our society whole.  The point is that, although our prayers and worship matter, how we live matters more.