Sunday, June 5, 2022

Healing Together

Sermon for May 22, 2022

John 5:1-9

It’s no great insight to point this out, but I’ll say it anyway:  All around us, nearby and far away, we see brokenness in need of healing.  If we look overseas, we find war in Ukraine, as well as in Myanmar, Yemen, Afghanistan, and other countries.1  In Buffalo, New York, the community is still reeling from last weekend’s hate-based shooting.  Here in Kansas City, we’ve prayed for 100 people killed in violent acts so far this year,2 and Kansas City is now on a pace to surpass last year’s homicide total.3  The pandemic that’s claimed more than 1 million American lives has become more an issue of politics than public health.  Across the country, people are dealing with rising prices for everything including rent, and houselessness continues to grow as a social and public-health issue – including here in Brookside and Waldo.  Sometimes, at least for me, healing society’s wounds feels like an impossible dream.

So, imagine the situation of the man in today’s Gospel reading, who’s been seeking healing for his affliction for 38 years.  The man’s story is fascinating.  After all this time, and all his consistent failure to find healing, you might think he’d either try something different or make peace with his illness.  But even after four decades, the man is still coming to the pool, hoping maybe this time someone will help him.  Don’t you wonder whether he ever asked anyone for help?  Don’t you wonder whether anyone ever offered?  Or, after 38 years, has the pattern simply become set:  Although this sick man keeps hoping healing will come, he keeps pursuing it in a ritual of failure.  And, just as sad, his community apparently doesn’t even notice him anymore. 

Why does this go on?  He’s not finding healing, that’s for sure.  But is this broken present system somehow working for him and his community?  Is he receiving the reward of righteous indignation at those who fail to help him get better?  Are those around him receiving the reward of moral superiority as they watch him fail and figure it’s his fault?  If people weren’t getting some need met by the dysfunction, the system wouldn’t still be going on like this after 38 years.

Does this sound at all familiar?  I can’t help but see parallels to the dysfunction we see, day in and day out.  I think we create rituals of failure for the brokenness that afflicts us.  Every time there’s a mass shooting, we move into a patterned response of outcry, prayer, vigil, and blame … with nothing changing as a result.  Every time there’s a shooting on our own streets, we see the story in the news, lament another lost child of God (usually black or brown), and pray for them on Sunday … with nothing changing as a result.  We see houseless people on streetcorners or at storefronts, asking for cash to meet their daily needs, and we struggle with whether we’re supposed to give them cash or food or just acknowledge their presence … but nothing changes as a result.  Now, I’m no sociologist, but I can see this much:  These rituals of failure have at least one thing in common, and that’s isolation.  We approach them as individuals reacting to isolated situations.  It’s like every morning seeing the man at the pool who’s been sick for 38 years but forgetting that you saw him the day before and never mentioning him to anyone else there.

The powers that work against God’s purposes thrive on our isolation.  And until we break free from seeing ourselves as independent agents facing unique and unrelated problems, there’s a good chance our rituals of failure will continue.  As long as we look to ourselves to solve our problems, rather than looking to our communities as places to build bridges of healing, we will lament and cast blame … and stay stuck in the brokenness we know so well.

I probably sound more judgey than I intend because I know I’m guilty of the same thing.  I certainly follow patterns that really aren’t working for me.  My guess is that you can think of a few of your own.  And as the Church, oh my goodness are we talented at doing the same things over and over and expecting a different outcome!  Where we do see resurrection in the Church, it comes from asking different questions about an “unsolvable” problem or trying on new points of view.  But, like gravity, “the way we’ve always done it” keeps holding us down.

To turn away from our rituals of failure, especially our patterns of isolation and individual response, and to turn toward God’s healing instead … it takes practice.  Patterns don’t change unless we do things differently and build muscle memory for new ways we might seek and offer healing.  Let me share a couple of examples from our experience here at St. Andrew’s. 

As you probably know, we’ve offered an Outreach ministry called the Free Store for several years.  It’s been a great event, an opportunity for scores of us to gather downtown and provide food and clothing for people at risk in the cold.  Unfortunately, this past December, the number of guests was much lower than in the past.  So, to help us think differently about this ministry and how best to help heal the brokenness of people going cold and hungry, parishioner Melissa Rock convened a gathering of other churches and relief organizations that also address this need.  Just in the space of 90 minutes, we began asking really rich questions about the Free Store.  Should it happen at a different time of year?  Should it take place in a different location, or in multiple locations, or maybe as a mobile effort?  Could we partner with other churches or schools or service agencies to leverage their experience and their networks?  And at the heart of all these questions is an even richer one: How can we disrupt the patterns we’ve created so our healing can work better?

Here’s another example from our Outreach ministries.  Last year, led by parishioner Janet Kelley, we began working with a church on the city’s East Side, St. James United Methodist, to help heal the brokenness of people in our city lacking the essentials of life.  We wanted to learn from St. James and then come alongside them to join in.  So St. Andrew’s members worked with St. James members at their Sharefest event in the fall, packing up literally tons of food for distribution, as well as volunteering at St. James’ weekly food pantry.  So, a few weeks ago, Janet Kelley, Melissa Rock, Jean Kiene, and I met with people from St. James to see how we might come alongside them on another event – Connecting Community, which will happen at St. James on Saturday, June 25.  They were planning to offer people food, toiletries, clothing, and diapers, as well as a free community lunch.  We mentioned an idea some of us had been kicking around – Laundry Love, where volunteers provide free use of the washers and dryers in a laundromat and talk with people as they come in.  It turns out, the folks at St. James had wanted to do just that kind of thing … and there’s a laundry directly across the street from their church.  And the Holy Spirit grinned.

I think these examples point us to something vital, something Jesus teaches across his ministry: that we are stronger together than we are on our own.  Free Store will be stronger for us having shared our hopes and our frustrations with potential partners also trying to help people secure housing, food, and clothing.  Working with St. James on their Connecting Community project, we’ll bring added value to ministry that’s already strong, and we’ll build our muscles of collaboration with other Jesus followers who want to heal the same wounds we feel called to heal.  After all, it’s right there in our parish’s purpose and mission statement: “We seek God’s healing love and share that love with all by growing in relationship with God, each other, and our neighbors.”

So, here’s my tiny challenge to us today as we imagine what a community approach to healing might look and feel like.  It might surprise you to hear this, but we have the opportunity every Sunday to live into that kind of healing right here, in this very room.  Every Sunday, there are members of the Order of St. Luke standing in the chapel and in the columbarium, ready to pray with you for the healing of whatever might be broken.  In fact, today, we’re commissioning five new members of OSL, anointing them with holy oil that they might be God’s instruments of healing in our church family.  So, here’s my challenge:  Consider stopping by the OSL station on your way back from receiving Communion.  Consider asking someone for healing prayer.  I know that makes many of us uncomfortable, the thought of sharing our needs or our brokenness with others.  But “with others” is precisely how Jesus goes about working healing in us and through us.  The fact that it pushes us a bit past our comfort zone might be evidence that seeking healing in community, rather than in isolation, is just what the heavenly Doctor ordered.

1.      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_ongoing_armed_conflicts

2.      https://www.kansascity.com/news/local/crime/article257005492.html

3.      https://www.kansascity.com/news/local/crime/article261177247.html


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